Safety and Conduct Rules
Community Guidelines:Member Code of Conduct
These guidelines set the standard for respectful,honest,and safe participation across the website and its official support channels. They apply to profiles,messages,comments,images,reports,and any other member interaction.
All members must be adults. False age information,underage content,or attempts to contact a minor are prohibited and may lead to immediate account action.
Do not threaten,harass,shame,pressure,stalk,or discriminate against another person. A refusal or no reply must be respected.
Use information and images that represent you accurately. Do not impersonate another person or use content that you do not have permission to share.
Profile and photo rules
A profile should help another adult make an informed choice about whether to communicate. Keep public information useful without exposing private details.
- Use a working email and keep passwords and verification codes private.
- Use recent images that represent you and that you have permission to publish.
- Describe your general location,expectations,and availability honestly.
- Do not publish your home address,private phone number,identity number,or financial details in a public bio.
- Do not use stolen,misleading,sexualised minor,or non-consensual images.
Chat and messaging rules
Good communication requires consent,patience,and respect. The same standards apply in direct messages and official support conversations.
- Do not send repeated messages after someone declines or stops responding.
- Ask before sending intimate,private,or otherwise sensitive images.
- Do not pressure anyone for money,sex,personal documents,passwords,or a meeting.
- Never pretend to be Admin Mary G,a staff member,or another user.
- Report threats,coercion,impersonation,fraud,or harassment through the official support route.
Be accurate
Write a truthful profile and make clear what you are looking for.
Ask and listen
Respect consent,boundaries,privacy,and a person’s decision not to continue.
Meet safely
Choose a public first meeting and arrange your own transport.
Report concerns
Save useful evidence and contact the official desk when something feels unsafe.
Privacy and personal safety
Use good judgment when moving a conversation off the website. No platform review can remove the need for your own safety decisions.
- Never share banking passwords,mobile-money PINs,one-time codes,or account recovery links.
- Send identity documents only through an official verification process and only when necessary.
- Do not repost another person’s messages,images,or personal information without permission.
- Tell a trusted person where you are going and arrange your own ride for a first meeting.
- Leave and seek help if a person becomes threatening,coercive,or unsafe.
Financial safety
Money requests are a common warning sign in online introductions. Genuine members should not pressure you to send money to a personal contact.
- Do not send transport,fuel,emergency,investment,or “release” money to another member.
- Do not share payment PINs or allow anyone to operate your mobile-money account.
- Verify any platform payment destination through the official payment page before sending.
- Keep transaction references and screenshots if you need to report a payment dispute.
- Report suspicious requests quickly;we may not be able to recover money sent privately.
Prohibited activity
The following activity can lead to content removal,account restrictions,suspension,or permanent removal depending on seriousness and evidence:
- Fake profiles,identity theft,impersonation,or coordinated deception.
- Threats,hate,harassment,stalking,blackmail,coercion,or exploitation.
- Any sexual content involving a minor or content shared without consent.
- Attempts to access another account,interfere with the site,or evade a safety restriction.
- Spam,phishing,malware,copied pages,unauthorised advertising,or fraudulent payment requests.
- Requests or arrangements that appear unlawful or put another person at serious risk.
Reporting a concern
Use the Report Scam pageor contact the official helpdesk. Include the page or profile link,what happened,and any relevant screenshots or message details.
Protect yourself:Never include your password,M-Pesa PIN,one-time code,or unnecessary identity documents in a report.
For an immediate threat,contact local emergency services first. We can review reports about activity on our service,but we cannot control private conversations or external platforms.
How moderation works
Reports are reviewed according to the information available,the seriousness of the concern,and the need to protect people or preserve evidence. Possible actions include:
- Requesting clarification or additional evidence.
- Removing or editing content that breaches the rules.
- Limiting messaging,profile visibility,or other account features.
- Suspending or permanently removing an account.
- Escalating a serious matter to an appropriate authority where required or appropriate.
We may act before completing a full review when a report indicates an urgent safety risk. We do not promise a particular outcome for every report.
Helpful official links
Review these pages before creating a profile,contacting a member,or making a payment:
Important:These guidelines support a safer adult community,but no online service can guarantee another person’s identity,intentions,behaviour,or response. Protect your privacy,make independent decisions,and choose a public first meeting.